lost sex drive
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We both lost our virginities to each other 2 years ago. The sex has been so consistent and good... up until now. Now I have to initiate it every time and 9 times out of 10 I get turned down. I tried to dress sexy, asked him what he liked. He would always say he was to tired etc. which I totally understand. But every time. I played a little experement to see how long he could go without anything. 2 days passed, 5 days passed, a week passed, two weeks passed and nothing. I talked to him about this and he just said he doesn't think about sex anymore and doesn't want it. He said he would rather cuddle and watch movies. Which I am always down for, alway. But I'd loved to be intimate with him once in a while. I feel it makes my bond to him stronger.
As I said I've asked him what he likes, what he wants, but he just isn't bothered and says our sex is fine. This is really hard because our relationship apart from that is absolutely perfect, we can talk to each other, have a laugh. We both bought a house together, have jobs, cars, traveling the world together, 47 countries to be exact. We get along so well, we never argue. It's just when it comes to this one issue. I am 20 and he 21. Does age have anything to do with this? This age is usually the age where his libido should be spring right?
I just don't know what to do. He calls me beautiful everyday. But I feel as if I am doing something wrong, even though he said I am perfect and he wouldn't change anything about me. He doesn't watch porn, he thinks it's like cheating, he is loyal and honest and wouldn't and does not bat an eye at any other women. He doesn't like going to stags nights or going out without me. He loves me to pieces but why is our sex life so wrong.
I am so sorry for such a long post. Just need to rant and any advice or opinions would be appreciated. Thanks
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