I've never climaxed during any kind of sex :(

I have had 5 partners, all fairly skilled, and literally not ONE of them has ever made me come.

Additionally when I tell people this, they make it a goal to get me off, which stresses me out because now there's pressure, which means of course that I don't get off. And then I feel bad because I imagine they feel inadequate so we both just give up and don't bring it up, because doing so always leads to disappointment.

I also don't think external physical stimulation (penetration, oral) has ever gotten me close - the only thing that works is clitoral stimulation and a lot of mental focus on my part.

I'm beginning to resign myself to never enjoying an orgasm at someone else's hands. 😭

Throw a desperate girl some ideas if you have any!!