Why so hostile

So I’m going to start off by saying I’m a man and I’m on this app for the reason that my wife forgets to log things for herself. I also go through the forums so maybe I can learn something or to help out. Well that’s all great but the hostility is there. I’m always getting called out and bashed on for no reason at all. There is a misconception that this is a “period app” but that’s not what this app is about, it clearly says fertility which means it’s for people who are ttc such as my wife and I so what’s the problem then? If you’re so hostile towards men that you need to spew out hatred every time you see one why are you on a fertility app which does have many men on it. Also I read on the rules and nowhere does it say men are not allowed and just to prove I’m here for constructive purposes I’ve posted a picture of our log so lay off with the hate and don’t get upset when it flies back at you