Bf doesn’t want to hang out with me

Me and my boyfriend have been living together for about a year now and been together for almost 7 years. We both work full time and our days off are never the same. I’m not a controlling gf but for the past months my boyfriend has been going out with his friends (which I don’t mind) and he comes home at 1, 2, or even 3 in the morning. Normally I wouldn’t care but it’s been bothering me Lately because he either ditches me to hang out with his friends or when I do want to go out with him and spend some us times he’s “too tired” (but not tired for his friends). On Saturday we had plans to go over to my brothers house for a bbq and then Friday night comes and he tells me he won’t be going anymore b/c he’s going out with his friends. It had really bothered me because he had agreed and made the plans for the bbq with my brothers without consulting me and now he’s ditching it. So we got into an argument Friday night about that and he just laughed and kept saying “I can’t believe you’re jealous of my guys friends” so Saturday comes and we go to the bbq, he isn’t there for very long then he leaves b/c his friend showed up, he’s out talking with him for about 30 minutes, then he comes inside and says bye to everyone b/c he’s leaving with his friends. I was really upset and didn’t even say bye to him and then he texts me and tells me to not go back to our apartment.... So my brothers take me out bar hopping to cheer me up and I sleep at my parents house, he calls me 1 time at 2:30am and then calls my mom the next day at 11:00am telling them that he’s worried about me because he can’t get a hold of me and b/c I didn’t go home that night. He sends me a text an hour later and apologizes to me and says he didn’t think I would actually listen to him and not go home. So today I packed a few clothes and items with me and decided I’ll be sleeping over my parents house for a while b/c I feel like he won’t take me serious if I’m still there. When we dated for about 3 years we had a similar issue because he would always put his friends before me and would only hang out with his friends and when we would make plans to be together he would invite his friends, and then he stopped because he started noticing that I just started distancing myself from him so he would take me serious, and now he’s back to it again. Like I said I don’t mind that he hangs out with his friends but it just bothers me that he rather make plans and hang out with his guys than me. If anyone has advice on what I should do other than talking to him about it please let me know.