sex time

for some reason, my boyfriend had a really difficult time staying hard during sex. i think he over thinks and freaks himself out. today he got all mad at himself because he was super hard, then as soon as we grabbed the condom, he wasn’t anymore. he kept getting really aggravated and he shut himself down. he didn’t want to talk because i think he was disappointed in himself. i always reassure him that it’s okay. he began to tell me that i don’t deserve him. so i quickly shot back with “that’s bullshit, you have everything i’d ever want, and i’ve never ever been so happy in my life.” he didn’t believe me at first and he just kinda was laying down thinking about it. i took his mind off of it by talking about something different, and he got hard again. i could see that he was so worried that he wasn’t going to stay hard, so i tried to keep him calm. it worked and it felt so good.