Husband Question...

We’ve been together since I was 15 and he was 18. So it will be 10 years at the end of the month... we will be married 4 years in May. We have 1 daughter who is almost 2.

I’m currently pregnant with our 2nd daughter. Due 2/19.

He has still not stepped up like he said he would... he got fired from his job in November and still doesn’t have a new one. He has caused me to be so stressed out knowing that I’m pregnant.

My question is have you ever told them that if it wasn’t for the children you would have left and been divorced by now? Did it make them wake up? Did it make them want to change?

I told my husband if it wasn’t for the girls, then I would have already left. I just want to know others experiences.