ADHD in Marriage

For anyone who has a partner with ADHD in their marriage, how did you deal with it? Any advice would be great.. I’m having such a tough time.

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I’m an EMT so I work at least 60 hr weeks and 24hr shifts. I’m also a full time student. It’s so hard for me to have to do every wifely duty, I.e. clean, cook, grocery shop, finances, my school work, maintain relationships with family, try and find time to relax, run a side business. I try and talk with him to see if there is something we can do to make it easier but he gets angry every time saying I’m calling him “crazy”. FYI I have a BA in psychology and am going for a masters, I wouldn’t ever call this crazy.. ugh