Husband did a total 360

Me and my husband have been together for 7 years and we have grew together throughout the years. When we first started dating he never wanted to get married, use to call other girls beautiful, went out to clubs in different cities to rap (he was wanting to be a rapper at the time, so he would pay clubs to let him perform), girls would hit on him in front of me when I did go and he just smile. Now I’m gonna add when we first started dating I weighed a lot more than I do now so guess it wasn’t to his satisfaction but he liked having me around, but he never said that to me. Social media was a big problem for us, he kept liking girls pictures that had the body type of a women he did want and made me feel horrible, and he use to message these girls about coming to his shows. We finally had a talk and he apologized and deleted his social media accounts and things were looking up. So in 2017, we got married and he kept on persuading me to lose weight and I was already trying but nothing was happening, he had stopped rapping at this point and calmed down, but still his mind didn’t seem like it was on me, in the corner of me eye I would still see him looking at other women and admiring their bodies. In 2018 I had my daughter and had complications that resulted in me having multiple surgeries after she was born which lasted 6 months and 5 different surgeries and it made me realize I needed to change my ways so I gave up a lot of foods, junk food, fast food, bread, sweets, dairy, pasta, practically anything that isn’t a fruit, vegetable, or meat. So now that’s all I eat, fruits, vegetables, and meats, and drink water, and it has helped me tremendously. In 8 months I lost 70 pounds but everyone says it looks like it’s more, but anyways, now that I lost this weight and look different, my husband has changed. If I am home 5 minutes late after work, “what took you so long”, or if I have a bruise on my arm, “ who gave you that”, he has been worried now that guys are looking at me how he was looking at other girls. I finally have my husband that sees me but I wish he would see me no matter what, no matter how much I weigh, I wouldn’t judge him no matter what.

Me and my husband 3 years ago

Me now