Feeling really insecure..

*Posting this anonymously just because I don’t know if any of my other family members have a Nuture account.*

I am 17 days away from meeting the littlest love of my life. My husband and I are welcoming our second boy! As much as I have excitement and everything that comes with adding a new addition, I can’t help but to feel upset and insecure. My family (mostly in laws) HATE the name I’ve chosen for our son. Especially my father in law who never fails to mention to me how many days I “have left to make a different decision on his name before it’s permanent.” It’s literally so bad that hardly ANYONE wrote his name on his baby shower cards. They just put baby blank #2. We never had this issue with my first. This truly breaks my heart. Any other mommas going through or went through what I am? Does it get better? Any tips and tricks for it not to weigh down so heavy on me?

Thanks in advance!