Advice pls!😥

Long post! Sorry but i don't have anyone to talk to.

Well, i gave birth almost 2 months ago and b/c i had a bleeding 3 times in the first months and took shots, my husband and i never had sex since last Dec.

We never kissed or anything at all during pregnancy, not even making out. Just the good morning/night kiss.

The point is my mum asked me yesterday if my husband is sleeping with me. I understood it as if we're sleeping in the same bed and i answered no b/c i'm sleeping with the baby in a separate room but she meant it sexually.

She started talking about this is not normal! How is this possible? He must be cold and this is not right. Why isn't he sleeping with you?! Your bleeding stopped!

I have no one to talk to and ask them about their opinion on this.

You should also know me and my husband were virgins and sexually not experienced.

Also, he told me when my bleeding finally stopped a week and a half ago that we would have sex when Oct ends. He works in another city so he's not here but he left on Oct's second.

And if you're wondering that he might be sleeping with another one, he works in a construction site in an isolated area and all staff members are men.

What should i do? Should i be worried? Our first anniversary is next week and don't want trouble.

What would you do?😥