Are there really no signs?

I have seen some crazy things on this app, but I think the craziest thing I’ve seen is just how amount of women who had no idea that their partners were cheating until they found direct evidence (usually on their phone.) — Were there really no other signs? No gut feelings?

Some of these relationships were incredibly long term and were completely committed. It’s so sad to think about how much trust was broken! These women were blindsided!

I guess I just want to know, are there any signs to watch out for? Were you blindsided because you were in it, but on the outside it would have been suspicious?

Thank you for any input! ❤️