Fed up isnt the word

Me and my partner have been together for 5 years now and we have a baby together. Everytime we get into a argument he throws in my face that my family are junkies and that some of them died of overdoses (only one did) so fed up of getting stuff thrown in my face when hes angry. And just because i would like to know where he is SOMETIMES when hes out with his mates he has ago at me and tells me its fuck all to do with me and that im not his wife so i dont need to know. Hes vile to me when we have an argument 👎🏻 hes called me fat and ugly before in arguments (im surprised he hasnt said that this time round).