Should i make it my responsibility to fix our relationship?
I don’t really have a relationship with my dad. He has been very “there but not there” basically my whole life and during my childhood he was very mentally and emotionally abusive, sometimes physically. Well once he and I had a very bad incident(physical abuse) when I was maybe 12/13 and it only made our relationship worse. I’m in my 20s now but I just can’t seem to “let go” of how he’s treated me. I don’t let him hug me, I don’t speak to him if I don’t have to, and he is someone that easily triggers me. I’ve even gone to therapy but it’s like no matter what I do I can’t change the way I feel. I don’t wanna be bitter anymore and every once in awhile it seems like he tries to reach out to me but it’s like I can’t accept it and a part of me gets mad that he waited till I was in my 20s to do so. We never speak about the incident and i know if I tried to bring it up it would quickly get dismissed. I don’t know what to do anymore because I honestly feel like I’m blocking my own growth as a person. I feel like I’ve been waiting on acknowledgement/apology that I’m never going to get.
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