Okay I’m having a insecurities flash back need advice

So this guy asked me out on a date almost two months ago and ive said yes just when all this Coronavirus stuff calms down(my choice)

Well he’s been very patient and we’ve been talking ever since and we are even gonna hang out next week.

Well yesterday I messaged him and he never replied. I didn’t think anything of it just thought he was busy.

Well this morning I saw he opened my messaged some time last night. Once again didn’t think anything of it.

Well this morning I was on Facebook and saw that he posted a video of him partying and drinking.

I don’t want to confront him about this cuz we are not officially together, it’s just I went through this with the last guy I was with.

He always left me on read when he was partying and that was every weekend. He never made any time for me, would always make up bs excuses on why he couldn’t spend time with me only to find out later he was partying and drinking with mostly girls.

Then he would turn around and say that I wasn’t trying or communicating.

And I would try to tell him all the time how that made me feel like I wasn’t good enough and all that.

This went on for a year until I had enough and ended things.

I really want this other guy to be different than the last one. But I don’t want to come off as clingy or crazy