Is it bad I don’t want to meet his friends / fam

It’s not that I’m nervous. It’s just idk if he’s wanting a relationship or not. Idk what he wants out of us hanging out.

When I guy introduces into his friends and family, it wasn’t mean shit. You think it does but no fuckboys go to some crazy lengths.

I’m just tired of getting played by guys and I’ve done well with meeting their friends and we all got along. I just don’t wanna put any energy into this stuff if it doesn’t go anywhere.

But I also don’t know what I want anyways. I like hanging w him but , idk I don’t really want a relationship I don’t think. But I want to know what he wants.

How do I ask him this without sounds needy or clingy