Thoughts on this

Hey girls, i don’t know what to do at the moment, me and my boyfriend have been together for the past 2 years I’m just a little hurt that we don’t talk on the phone anymore he plays xbox at lot and when I message him he leaves me on read most of the time and then I’m waiting ages for a reply because he’s playing his game. So then I crake it and then a argument starts am I in the wrong for getting mad. I need some help on how I can do better