Finding yourself

Ladies, I have a soon to be 5 yr old and one on the way I realized I lost my inner self- how do you get back to you and get your me time- I feel lost like I don’t know myself and what I like anymore almost like a stuck feeling- not sure if it’s all these hormones or what but I feel like I’m lacking self confidence in many areas and I’m unsure how to get my groove back- any advice tips suggestions would be very helpful thank you mamas!