Repost: I just need to know if I’m overthinking
So small thing so my boyfriend always text me good morning as soon as he wakes up a few times he’ll text after his morning class but he would say I’m sorry and I legit wouldn’t know because I’m still asleep. So today he didn’t and I was super confused he told me he was going to wake up at 4 because both the cars broke but they got one to start working again so he had to wake up at 4 and take his mom to work so I woke and no text and I was super confused and I was like if he didn’t text me I’m going to be so mad and his Instagram and Snapchat showed active at 4 but his location was still his house (snap doesn’t update location till ur on it again) so I was like o his probably was able to figure out the other car and didn’t need him. But once he woke he I was like did u just wake up and he said no I woke up at 4 rushed to take my mom and drove back and went to sleep and then woke up at 9:10 and had to rush (because he was late) to pick his mom up from work and then drove back and is going to work now himself. And idk I’m not mad I’m just sad because he always text me and idk if this means anything or if my anxiety and overthinking is just messing with me and I texted him basically this same paragraph and he said “really mad I didn’t do anything I had to rush and so everything and I’m sorry that I didn’t text you I was just busy but u don’t have any reason to be mad” and I told him I’m not I’m just sad and confused and yeah I asked him if he loves me and he gave me his normal response but yeah. Let me know if I’m just overthinking because he said he was sorry for texting me he knew he was going to go back to sleep (he said that first before I told him I was going to be mad) and then when I texted him basically this he I’m sorry for that texting you good morning I was just busy but u shouldn’t be mad and idk y ur sad.
I think he didn’t react well to what I told him which is not ok but I also think I’m overthinking and just being anxious because he is really busy and stressed because who knows when the car will or will not break down and he has to get to work and everything else. So let me know what you ladies think 💛 also I’m sorry if this made no sense additional my anxiety has been really bad lately and he’s been helping there has been times where he gets frustrated but most of the time he helps but yeah my anxiety has been really bad I feel like it’s just that but still just need to hear that it’s just my anxiety pushing through again
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