If someone told you they set an alarm to text you back but still didn’t text you back when the alarm went off... how would you feel?

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This girl I was hoping to become friends with never usually replies. I hadn’t heard from her for a few weeks, but seen her out in public! We talked for a bit, but she told me “it’s going to sound ridiculous but I even set an alarm to remember to text you back but still didn’t”... I just laughed awkwardly but now that I think about it I’m somewhat hurt that she had to set an alarm & still couldn’t be bothered.... 
How would you feel?

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I can't be bothered to get upset about things that people do whom I barely know. Ignore her and move on. Don't ask her why she didn't reply it looks so needy and no one likes needy.

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Why are you relying on her to be your friend

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Uhhhh. I don’t know why you’re relying so heavily on her to be your friend. If she wants to put in the effort, she will. Period. I learned this about a friend I have. I really wanted to be friends & be close. I was hoping we would end up texting all the time but SHE never puts in the effort so I left it alone. We’re not super close, don’t talk or text all the time & she always wants to know “the tea” whenever I do see her. 
If she cared & put in the effort, she’d text me to see how I am. Lol

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I would assume she has ADHD lol because as someone with ADHD that sounds about right.

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Some of us have issues and have to set alarms to remember to adequately socialize over the phone. Some day I don’t want to talk to anyone. Most people have days like that, some people have many days like that. Because it’s something I’ve done idgaf and I suggest you get over it.

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I'd feel like she probably has a really busy life and I'd continue going about my own life.

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Don’t waste your time chasing this girl to be your friend

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Sometimes I want to put some thought into a text and I just don’t have the time at the moment. She is busy.

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If she’s having to set an alarm to remind herself to message you she’s clearly not into that friendship as much as you are

If someone told you they set an alarm to text you back but still didn’t text you back when the alarm went off... how would you feel?

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