No effort from husband

Can anyone relate? My husbands says he would like kids but doesn’t put in the effort. I want him to be tested because it’s been a year of trying with one miscarriage. When we were trying each month it’s was pulling teeth to get him to dance. He has issues staying up or finishing half the time or doing it two days in a row. I think it’s testosterone levels but he can’t even bother to take any vitamins or tea I get him. I explained that it takes 3 months to get healthy sperm and yet he lies about taking the stuff I get him.

It’s the same argument every few months regarding his lack of Effort. He apologizes and says he will do better but then goes back to not bothering.

I finally just hit a wall today because I’ve had his refill of stuff waiting for him these past 3 months to say he ran out. But he claims he takes it when I ask him every so often. I finally said f it,I don’t want kids with you. Your PlayStation is more important than me. You faithfully play it everyday but can’t take one pill or tea I get you consistently.

January was supposed our fresh start after I got diagnosed with pcos in October and have been changing my habits to lose weight and get pregnant this new year. I’m so depressed. I told him I’m getting my tubes tied at 30 because there’s a problem and you don’t care to make me a priority. Sigh.