I didnt text my bf today.

My bf of 5 years hasnt been making me happy. Doesnt really make time anymore..hangs out with friends and their girlfriends more than me.. Dry ass texts back and rare phone calls.

I get the occasional "hows ur day"....followed by complete silence until night time and he will send me an "i love you baby goodnight"

I am so lonely. I am 29. He is a little older than me.

So today, i havent texted him at all. Its 2:00pm and he hasnt said a word. Its like he doesnt even realize that I havent messaged him.

Is it over?

Let me add.. I have brought it up to him. Sometimes I say things like " why havent you talked to me all day?" And hell say " well it goes both ways..you havent messaged me either".

But i dont want to message first if ill get a one word reply. I take that as I am bothering him. I want to be chased again.