It truly breaks my heart.

I honestly feel like Marrying me isn’t a priority to my fiancé. We have been together for almost 8 years. He voiced to me in the beginning of our relationship that he wanted to marry me and spend his life with me but I just feel like no effort to make the next step is being made on his part. Next step being getting married. I just feel like at this point there’s no reason why we shouldn’t be married. I’m not going anywhere because I love him dearly and deeply, and we have a good life together, but it really does hurt me that he asked me to marry him several years ago but it hasn’t happened yet. We are in our mid 30’s and early 40’s. I would like for him to be excited to marry me and initiate something instead of waiting for me to always do it. I’ll say something and he will just say it’s not going to change our relationship, but why ask me if you’re not going to follow through? It makes me feel like he doesn’t truly love me like he’s lead on. I just feel like if you truly love a person and want to spend your life with them, you marry them.

He won’t agree to a wedding date. He won’t talk about it.