Is it a girl thing?

So I've recently become close with one of my male coworkers and ever since then I've gotten a different perspective from the males side of the relationship. For example, he recently told me his wife was mad about something that had happened at work, when he came home, she basically took it out on him. He did nothing wrong. She just had a bad day. Now, I know I've done the same thing with my husband. When I get moody or something I tend to take out my frustration on him. I get an attitude with him for no reason. I know my mom's done the same with my dad. So I'm curious... Does anyone else do this or am I just a bitch?