Because everyone told me I’m a bad parent

I just want to say I got on this app for advice and people was seriously questioning my parent skills. Asking do I spend time with my son. And saying he just needs love and attention etc. I literally spend time with him more than anyone does. I play with him even though he has brothers I buy puzzles and arts and craft stuff. We do affirmations and I tell him he can be an amazing little boy and he isn’t a bad kid he just makes bad decisions. The little time that I’m in the shower or something like that he decides to just do whatever he can to destroy things or fight with my other boys. My husband even thought I was exaggerating at first and now he finally sees what’s going on. I took him to get a emergency evaluation and they referred me to someone that finally diagnosed him with conduct disorder. It’s not really any meds or anything I want him on unless I’ve exhausted all other options nor did they offer any medicines which I was happy about. They are sending a intense in person therapist here every two weeks and it’s only the beginning. Today was a hell of a day. Screw whoever questioned my dorn parenting atp…y’all aren’t the ones dealing with this while 30 weeks pregnant…I really wanted support…but hey everyone is a perfect parent…they wouldn’t even offer intense therapy if he didn’t need it so bad…we also in family therapy along with individual therapy for everyone else. One of my sons now have anxiety issues because of him tormenting him now…I have relapsed with my ptsd because this is really traumatic for me especially when I didn’t have my husbands support at first…like everyone was calling me crazy and it turns out I’m really not crazy..glad I have support now thanks a lot to everyone who wanted to question my dorn parenting…