Am I manipulative ?

My boyfriend always says I’m manipulative in every argument, I’ve finally gotten tired of cleaning up after him in my room I’m 21 he’s 24 🤦🏽‍♀️ he drops his cokes and food and doesn’t clean them nor tell me and I usually find out when I’m fixing my bed in the morning. He uses the excuse that he wakes up early for work, but in reality why not clean the mess you make that moment? I’m not sure but yea anyways I finally had it bc it’s been months on end, so I told him I’m not his maid nor his mom, that I work too although I work from home. I told him he can go to his apartment if he wants to be able to leave things lying around. He gets mad because I expressed that I’m not always excited to go out and do things only he likes that I’d rather stay home or on Mother’s Day (currently with a baby on the way) he didn’t acknowledge me until like 11am? Then he left me to go with his mom and he came back around 4 while he was gone he kept asking me why I was mad and I said I’m not that I’m just hurt that he ditched me to take his mom out and he didn’t even tell me a simple happy Mother’s Day until I mentioned. He came back with a little crappy basket he made. See I’m a simple person but he got mad when I tried to eat the candy and got disgusted that everything was melted. Because that really kind of just tells me he through all the crap he bought for me in his car the whole day. 😅 he also gets mad because I’m not wanting to have sec with him as much as we used to before me getting pregnant. It’s honestly because I smell his breath (I’m sure he has cavities bc the smell is horrendous) and I’ve asked very nicely if he can make a dentist appointment because cavities need to be taken care of. He got mad at that and said I made him feel very self conscious and it’s been over a month and he still hasn’t gone. Anyways that’s mainly it, am I being manipulative for this?