Do I have a right to be upset?

Question

I seen this message in my boyfriend’s phone, we have been together for 4 years. He does have a history of cheating the first 3 years we were together, but this last year has been amazing so far or I thought. I haven’t been through his phone in a year up until last night. I didn’t find anything other than this message from 2 months ago to one of his friends. Would this rub you the wrong way or should I move on from it?

Answer

You should have moved on after he cheated on you for 3 years. There is no going back. Your relationship will never be successful.

Answer

You stayed with a cheater… What did you expect? If you still feel the need to check his phone too then it’s a clear sign there is still zero trust.

Answer

I mean, technically yes you can be upset. But you also did choose to stay with someone who cheated on you for majority of your relationship, so I don’t see why you’d be surprised or anything. I believe if you know someone is a cheater (especially a serial cheater) and you choose to stay, you can’t be mad or complain if they screw you over again.

Do I have a right to be upset?

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