I am honestly heartbroken

My husband is almost a doctor and he told me that i was not only disrespecting his profession but also personally disrespecting him because I want to go to a midwife for my 3rd pregnancy. He said "they're stupid motherfuckers who only quacks go to". He literally yelled at me and told me I don't respect him at all and that it's a fucking joke. And that I need to find a real obgyn or he's not going to be happy because "i'll be damned if my unborn child is in the hands of someone with less experience and no where near the intelligence of an actual doctor".