Tell me if I’m wrong
Y’all tell me if I’m wrong or not
‼️Long post/rant‼️
My spouse and I are having our first child together. I’m due next month. He only bought 2 NB bags of diapers. That’s it. My family (thank God I don’t ask)been buying clothes, crib swing 5 boxes of diapers, bottles etc…I just bought 2 infant car seats (one for my car and one for his) clothes, dresser etc… I don’t do baby showers. He has another kiddo from past relationship I have 4 from mines. Everytime I bought something for my kids I get stuff for his child too. He’s on child support from his last relationship. He pays $1200 (plus $300 for medical insurance) for just one child. And now she’s requesting for $250 more for child support. He has his child on the weekends. He gets her toys every time and takes her to McDonald’s the whole weekend. Whatever she wants he gets her. He lives in my house rent free. He never bought my kids anything, nothing. Not even a little toy. So, I stop buying things for his kid. He told me today that he ordered his kiddo some clothes and shoes. I asked him what about our baby, just an outfit? He then got upset and told me that his kiddo needs clothes but his ex sends their child off with clothes for the weekend, plus his mom buys her clothes every weekend too. It just would be nice that he gets our child something too. I shouldn’t have to do all on my own or have my mom and sisters get things even though they do it on their own.
Am I wrong?
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.