Becoming parents

My husband and I had a trama experience having the baby. My husband has also been fighting a mysterious illness where he gets dizzy and his head hurts and he gets scared it’s spiritual warfare. He is also stressed from work a lot. I’m becoming a stay at home mom.. having the baby takes a lot of my attention and takes away from him time wise. He is understanding but it’s very hard I’m sure. Having a newborn and trying to adjust to that alone is a lot. Anyone have tips? I’m really trying to be there for him and listen and even this morning when we were having a serious talk and baby started crying I felt terrible… I love being a mom and we love our baby. We’re just trying to adjust to having him here too… I don’t want to sound like a bad person. He’s seen many doctors and no one can figure it out