I have been with him for like a year now and he's got 4 kids from a previous relationship. I am currently 39 +6 pregnant myself, so, I'm about to give birth to his 5th child. The relationship with his kids (the 2 lil ones) was ok at first, now they simply don't even say 'hello' to me. For some reason. I've tried pampering them, playing, brought them places, got them nice things, making handmade stuff... They just don't care. On the other hand I don't even know the older 2 (which, tbh, right now it's better for my soul). But I'm about to bring a brother of them to the world. And I feel like a 🐀 myself around them. Honestly, today they went to the park and I just did my plan. I don't want this energy around me right now. But the situation is starting to get me. He is not being very helpful and just ignores what's going on, which I haven't discussed yet because right now I just want to focus on giving birth safely and enjoying the moment a bit. But I don't know, sometimes I think that everything is so complicated for me... Or better, it feels like the way I acc feel doesn't matter to anyone. Do you have any advise? Maybe someone has gone through something similar? I just gave up pleasing everyone and started taking care of myself but it's not what makes me happier either. I don't know,... I should be enjoying this moment, it's gonna be my first child, and I just can't because all the people that are supposed to be sharing it with me are too busy with their own things and apparently making me feel bad. I guess it's life, but I wish I had some support for once.