So I left my ex because he cheated on me, was a huge narcissist and love bombed me in the beginning.

In the beginning of our relationship he showered me with gifts, flowers, Starbucks, love letters, look me on the most AMAZING dates, treated me like a QUEEN, then out of nowhere he just turned absolutely evil. I mean made me cry, told me I was ugly, didn’t care about me and would laugh IN MY FACE that he broke my heart. I did notice some self centered actions, overly cocky, and some other “red flags” etc etc but everything else was so perfect I ignored it and chalked it up to his personality and not pure narcissism

I started to talk to someone new and he’s an absolute sweetheart. He speaks so kindly to me, we are so similar, and overall a huge teddy bear, literally someone I would DREAM about.

But for some reason I’m so so scared. Like what if this an act? Like my ex? What if he finds me ugly one day and just starts treating me bad? Like for some reason I’m so scared and I even make excuses to not see him. He’s such an angel, literally everything I dreamed about. He’s handsome, kind, and doesn’t do anything I would see as a “red flag”. How do I get over my fear?? My heart hurts and I feel so weird