Has he cheated?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We got engaged a couple of months ago and the night we announced it on Facebook this girl that was friends with him on there deleted him then added me. I asked him what it was about and he said he didn't know and she was a bit weird but I just accepted anyway. I'm 5 months pregnant also. Anyway she had made strange random comments on my photos and I asked him if anything had ever happened with her or what her issue was and he said he didn't know. Tonight I got a message from her saying "he cheats on you" and basically she had screen shots of her saying to him tell her or I will and he said what's the point I haven't cheated it's in the past leave it. So it turns out that he had kissed her (he says that's all) a year before we met - and that when we were having trouble a couple of years ago he messaged her a few times for someone to talk to? (He moved 400 miles to be with me and she still lives 5 hours away) and she seemed to have it in her head he's lying to me and kept repeating poor me etc.. options please? My heads a mess and I can't eat as I feel too sick my poor baby must be staving.

Answer

Sounds like she wanted him and didn't get him! Now enjoy your pregnancy!!

Answer

Ehhh I used to be the type who would think this is some crazy bitch but I've been on the other side before and I was called crazy when I was telling the truth. Let's just say that SOME guys (and women) are great liars and actors... If you can truly trust him, that's great. But if your gut is bothering you about ANYTHING. Trust that feeling. Sometimes we can unfortunately trust strange women over our fiances. I don't see why she'd randomly lie about things but I guess if she's jealous she may.

Answer

I don't think he's cheated, she just seems to have latched onto him.
Be careful either way and try to eat - baby shouldn't suffer!

Answer

It just seems like shes clingy....Ignore her....If she has to blackmail your man thats dumb....You would only have to blackmail someone if you already know you were bullshitting or noone would believe you.....She most likely jealous your 5 months prego with his seed.....Block her BLOCK HER block her ! Shes just gonna keep thinking shes important

Answer

First off even if your not hungry .... Ummmm eat. You're pregnant. Second she sounds like a guppie bitch. If you trust him ignore this girl, block her. Move on.

Answer

She is honestly probably just jealous and petty. If you don't have any reason not to believe him then believe him. He is your significant other and she is just a random girl. You don't know her. You know him. I'd be upset he messaged her after we got together but other than that it doesn't sound like anything happened.

Answer

She's jealous as well as mentally unstable! Don't let this psycho bitch who wants your man (but could never have him) get to you, focus on your family and your upcoming wedding... She's just background noise! AND FEED THAT BABY!! LOL

Answer

Honestly this girl sounds like a jealous nut case. She's trying to break you guys up cause she's still hung up on him and hopes that he will still get back with her.

My husband had the same problem when we got together. In the end we both made it clear that she needed ti stay away from him because he doesn't want or need her.

After You guys make it clear that she needs to leave him alone you can sort out the rest of what happened. Then make it clear to him if he ever but ever contact her again it will be over between you two.

I didn't need to do that with hubby though because I knew he wouldn't contact that lunatic again

Answer

Ask her what really happened and when it happened

Has he cheated?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey