We're shy 😕

Me and my bf have been together 5 years in December, our sex life was good, nothing to adventurous, but it was fine. The last couple of years it's been really off, like we literally only have sex when we have both had a drink, which can sometimes mean it happens only once a month, when we are sober it's like we are too shy to get into it and neither of us will initiate 😕 I love sex and I want to have it more often, but I get to nervous to start it off! Any advice ladies 😊