To orgasm or not to orgasm that is the question

Cassandra
So my boyfriend finally got me to orgasm we have been dating over a year. However it takes a lot and quite a bit of force I enjoyed it so much that I didn't realize what a toll it took down there. The next day at work I was constantly reminded of the night before because I was sore. 
I was just wondering does anyone else on here have that problem? Do you have to deal with pain to get pleasure?