Long story short, my boyfriend and I were virgins, we really wanted to have sex but I didn't want to give up my virginity before marriage, we were having a lot of problems and I just thought if I have sex with him maybe he'll have some kind of attachment to me, a month on we've broken up for good and he said his dad said he is going to choose who he marrys and that he can't but I don't believe that's true anymore, I don't know if it was an excuse for us to break up or not, but he basically changed into a different person and said he doesn't really care about anything anymore not his family not us etc etc so i don't know, he just has no ambition for the future cares about no one but himself, just wants to have fun for the rest of his life and have nothing serious to tie him down, but he promised me so much, said he was serious about me, and now all of a sudden his minds completely changed on everything, I know this day and age sex is nothing but to me it was a really big thing, I'm old school, I wanted to save that until marriage, but I really thought he was the one and loved him so much, the thought of if he will have sex with other girls is so heartbreaking to me and this whole situation has me so down more than just any old break up, please help, I actually feel suicidal