Celibate & horny

I haven't had sex at all this year! I'm so horny all the time but I'm sick of casual sex, so i decided the next time I had sex, it would be with a partner... But I don't have a boyfriend and I don't know what to do...
 
I was pretty addicted to sex and I want to respect myself and I want men to respect me and not use me.  Is anyone else in a similar situation? I mean, what if I never get a boyfriend.. I'm going to have to have sex eventually.. 
 
I don't really have many friends and I work for myself so the only way I can meet someone is like out at a pub or whatever but I don't really want to sleep with any random guy.. And it might sound dumb but I'm kind of scared my hymens gonna grow back :/ Help?!