A little discouraged... 😕

So I had sex with my man, I was a little too tight for him to fit in. This made him very excited, I had not had sex in a couple years. Fore play became our good friend. However, before we ended up having sex, I had warned him that I had literally just gotten off my period. There was not any blood or anything so we both thought I was good to go. I was so wet, and he went down on me. Everything was amazing, he even did this humming thing 🙄, which made me quiver. He began to finger me, opening me up more. I squirted so bad, he was proud of himself and I was of him because I had not ever squirted before. He began to stick it in me and something made us turn on the light! When I squirted, light blood came out and it was everywhere. So he wanted us to stop, I agreed. Now I am so embarrassed because this was our first time as a couple.  
Another thing is he is quite during sex, I was giving him a blow job, told him I needed him to communicate with me if I was doing a good job. I told him moaning and groaning turned me on. He really did try but he was more into pulling my hair and guiding my head. He did cum, and said repeatedly that I was doing a good job. But how do I know if he enjoyed it for sure. I don't like that he is quiet in bed, I myself am pretty vocal which he loves. We are pretty good at communicating, but I wish i could know if he for sure enjoyed himself.Â