How do you deal with being a virgin when your SO is not?

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I have never had sex with anyone but I've done oral before. My boyfriend of two months has had several sexual relationships with lots of different girls and I get really intimidated with the thought of going anywhere with him. I've let him eat me out and finger me but I'm still to afraid to even give him a little hand job. Keep thinking about the fact that I might not be good enough. I've talked to him about it once, but I don't think he knows it still bothers me. Any advice?

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omg ! i completely understand , because i was a virgin and my bf wasn't . i always wanted to lose my virginty to a virgin , because i always like the idea of learning together . i knew the sex would be wack at first lol but i figured , you'd learn together and just watch it get better and better everytime 😍 i was TERRIFIED , cause my bf had something to compare our sex to , and what if i wasn't good enough ? the girl he lost his virginity to was completely experienced , so i knew i wouldn't know how to please him as good as she did . turns out , i'm the best he's ever had . he says , that just because she was experienced didn't make her "good" at sex . he says that he wish , he would've waited for me (as if he knew , i would've came along lol) . he says , our sex means something special to him and could never compare to his past . don't be scared ! you gotta learn at some point , and what's better than practicing on the man you love ? ask him what he likes , and tell him to be honest with you about his likes/dislikes . i'm still new to it , so if i need help my guy guides me or let's me know of ways it'll feel better . he never fails to make me orgasm and feel amazing , experienced men are the best ! i promise you lol

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It was ace, he 'taught' me how to do it. X

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yeah that was me .. but as time goes you both learn off of eachother and let me just tell you the sex gets so much better when you get confident about your self and whag your doing.

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That's odd my boyfriend immediately pulls me up for a kiss after a blow job. They should share the love.

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Same with me. Just tell him it's your first time and he will probably be gentle. I was quite happy he had some experience, at least one of us knew what they were doing and he had used a condom before so we didn't have that struggle beforehand. It was quite nice actually

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I understand where you coming from. I lost my v card when I was 18 and he was 25. And I know he had sex with others before me and like you I felt like he would compare me and idk not be satisfied. But I have been married to him for 7 years now. And have 3 beautiful kids with him. And has never complained😉so I guess I been doing a good job lol. Don't worry girl the first time is always scary but you won't regret it especially if it's with someone you true love.

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I think it would ne better i never could date a virgin i didnt even want to lose my virginity to a virgin

How do you deal with being a virgin when your SO is not?

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