High Sex

So I'm a virgin and my boyfriend not...But I been thinking and wanting to lose my virginity to him and all but I heard for your first time theirs always pain 🤕. He always told me he'll go slow for me and stop whenever it felt like I couldn't take it anymore. So I start to wonder if I'm high I wouldn't be able to feel it as much because when I'm high I feel tingly and good af 😌! Sooo is it true I wouldn't be able to feel it or should I just be sober 🤔