I'm new at this app, but I have a good feeling about it! 

I do have a question for all of you. My boyfriend who I've been sharing a bed with for over a year and been dating for about 8 months now doesn't like the idea of using toys on himself.. Or me really for that matter. Not sure if our relationship is still too fresh that he doesn't feel comfortable doing that stuff or what. He tells me that if he ever used a toy on me that he would feel "less of a man" of course I've explained to him that it's not all about him; and heck he might enjoy it! However, I let the topic die... For now. Anyways, seems like when I bring up getting a toy to use on him he thinks I'm joking mostly then he absolutely dismisses the idea. 

Do any of you have that same problem? If so, what have you done? & how do I make him see that it could be really fun!?