It affects the relationship pretty bad. In A way that we only hang out tonight. And if it is during the day we barely hang out because he's tired. He refuses to take anything that could possibly help it and he says he tried every thing to make it go away.  I just hate that when we plan to hang out at a certain time and then he oversleep and so then we have to hang out at like 5 o'clock at night when we were playing to hang out I want o'clock in afternoon.  I've talked to him about it but I just feel like there's no point in trying to change it.  I know he can't help it but I really want to go out and do things with him besides just lay in bed the whole time..... Is it bad that I feel this way about it? Has anyone eles gone through this? Just feel horrible that I have suck s negative feeling about it.