So I'm 17 obviously, and recently I've been talking to this guy that is 21. We're both clear this isn't all about sex. (Actually not anywhere near sex for a long time for sure.) I do turn 18 in January and I'm assuming it won't be as big of a deal then? But a few months after I turn 18 he'll be 22, and honestly I think that's fine. I'm asking because my friend is like, "that's really weird.." But I think she's being an asshole. Opinions please? Comments? Concerns?