No pleasure during sex

This is so Embarrasing but I cannot feel any pleasure during sex. 
I feel nothing at all, and my mind goes crazy it's as if I can't relax cause it hurt the first time a few years ago and I have never experienced pleasure at all. 
Does anyone have any ideas on how to Completey relax and not tighten up? 

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