PCOS info about conceiving

Keana
So I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 18 years old, they told me that it's going to be difficult for me to convince and every since I turned 19 I stopped using condoms and stopped BC to try and raise my odds of starting a family with my SO. I never know when I'm ovulating and my periods come out of the blue and sometimes I miss out on my period for months at a time. I was just wondering if inorder to have a baby if you need to orgasm, and is it normal for semen to fall out of you almost immediatly after intercourse? I have never had sex and it stayed inside of me, I could even lay in bed for 20 minutes and hold my legs up but as soon as I stand up it just comes out. I'm looking for a little more info on trying to convince with PCOS. Any advice would help! I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22.