Noone can tell you if it is too early or not . However , everyone I've talked to has said they regretted it. You are only 14 and I'm not trying to talk down to you at all but sex can be a major thing and it is something that once you do , you can't take back. You might think you love him but odds are it is just a crush. Having sex too soon could lead to a whole spew of problems including depression and self hate as well as hate as the person you have sex with not to mention tje fact that you are under the age of consent which would make you having sex illegal. With sex, no matter the protection you might use there is always a chance of pregnancy , stds etc. If your boyfriend is over the age of consent he could go to jail for rape. It is possible for you guys to end up staying together forever. However , at this point you have no idea. No matter the dreams of your future you might have. Believe me. My boyfriend at 14. We dated for two years . I did a lot with him that I still struggle to get over at 14 and as we grew older he kept pressuring me to have sex which is NEVER okay. no matter if you're in a relationship or not and no matter how long.

I thought i was going to marry that boy but soon the relationship turned extremely abusive. A while later i met the love of my life and at 17 i lost my virginity to my best friend and fiance. I cannot express how happy i am that i waited and that i stood my ground. I was NOT ready. and honestly i dont believe any 14 year old is. As you get older you will start to be able to decide more things. But sex. Its complicated. And i highly suggest waiting and not bringing that complication and possible consequences into your life.

If he says you'll do it if you love him.

Leave him right away.

If you say no and he gets mad.

Leave him right away.

If he coerces you. That is rape.

Leave him right away.

I know it seems exciting and new and fun but it will change your life. And if you do it now. It is hard to tell how it m

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