Sex!!!!

So I have been married for a year and been with him for 2. He was my first which I don't regret but the only thing that I have an issue with is the only way for me to have the big O is when I am on top, most of the time I don't mind but sometimes I would be able to lay back and still be satisfied. He doesn't like giving oral , he will finger me every now and then but I still don't get off. So what are your favorite positions and tricks of both of you getting off.