what do I do???

Question

Why do I not come? I can come any time I do it myself but when I get eaten out or even sex it just doesn't happen. Obviously I'm turned on but the guy I'm with says that he feels really bad and thinks that it's his fault. What do I do?

Answer

Female orgasm can be a nightmare! Men are lucky that they can pretty much do it any time, anywhere and in any mood but we need our minds to be clear, our bodies relaxed and multiple stimulation 😳

It took me years before I got the hang of orgasming regularly and I find that being on top is 100% the best position. I keep my legs fairly straight and balance on my fore arms (I guess it's almost a plank-type position haha) and sort of grind so I'm choosing how deep I let him go but my clit is also rubbing against him so I'm getting that extra stimulation. You need to focus your mind as well, get lost in the pleasure and if it helps fantasise about sexual things in addition to what's actually happening.

If you don't like being on top then find a way to play with yourself while he is on top or behind or whatever position is going on. Just don't give up. If you can orgasm when you're on your own then try imitate that when you're with your partner :) good luck!

Answer

I'm the same way. I hate it because I feel like I'm broken or something! Try more foreplay and try to guide him on what to do. Xox

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