I think my bf ripped my ...., we had sex for the first time on this past Valentine's Day and had it two times since and the first time my skin ripped not where my hymen, opening for my vagina was, like the hole didn't open but the surrounding skin  where my posterior fourchet is ripped open while we were having sex less than a cm away  and ripped back open the second time. Is this normal? How does it heal? Should we take a break from sex(I was bent over, like touching my toes)(note:it felt good and i was wet/lubricated)