Wait.. what?

So I was suppose to start on the 11th. I still haven't. But today I've been having olvery pains and very little bleeding. Like nothing. Like wipe ok little pink but nothing else at the end of the day. I've had an ectopic pregnancy in 2015 so I get very worried and stressed.. what should I do?? I'm nervous. Should I wait another week to test or do it now??.. I'm stressing because he and I have been sexually active for the past month now, which isn't normal, and he does the "pull out method" so idk. Idk what do to.