is this normal?

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Is it normal for sex to feel a bit weird the first few times? People make it look like the greatest thing but I don't feel at all comfortable with it. Actually worried about doing it again. I'm awake of everyone being different and into diffeeent things, however I do hold my fears. I love talking about it and the foreplay and all but when it. Comes down to lol the actual intercourse 😔i don't get the amazing feeling ppl often speak of

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What the other girls have said is super true but it's also about who you are doing it with. Some people's bodies just don't fit together. For the longest time I could never orgasm or even get close. Sex was really really boring for me and then I met my fiancé and he makes it happen almost every single time. It's not just about rubbing up against someone it's also about finding chemistry between the two of you!  😊

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Yes totally normal to feel a bit weird the first few times but make sure you use fire play and lube to help

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It will be weird the first few times, it's even normal for it to still hurt. You just have to get the hang of it and once you do, it will start to feel great.

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Your feelings are totally valid and it will probably (and hopefully) get much much better for you. For me, i was surprised at how good my first time/s felt. Like there was some pain an discomfort but i didnt think that it would feel as good as it did bc i have never been good at fingering myself. Yet the first time i got fingered i was also like, what the hell why does this feel so good. You could be feeling some nervousness causing your body to constrict, whether or not you are conscious about it or feel mentally ready. It takes time for your body to adjust to these new feelings/actions and to understand what it should do during sex. Give it time and make sure you are very comfortable before penetration. Your body has to learn how to use certain muscles its probably never used before and that takes practice.
For example, my boyfriend used to be a personal trainer and has been taking me to the gym. He talks a lot about how when we dont use certain muscles or move in the correct ways, those muscles dont know how to move properly and when you start working out, you need to learn and train your body to move the right way. Its the same thing. Its uncomfortable and painful but eventually your body learns.

is this normal?

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